When students go into college, they need to join in the group, because there is no way for them to live alone. They have new classmates and roommates. How to fit in the group is the main problem for them to solve. A successful student can handle it well.

當學生進入大學后他們需要融入集體，因為他們是不可能獨自生活的。他們將有新的同學和室友。如何適應集體是要解決的首要問題。一個成功的學生可以把這些事情處理得很好。

To fit in the group, the students must have the collective consciousness. As most students are only child in the family, so they don’t know how to get along well with their roommates. They always notice themselves and ignore others’ feelings. But as they live in a dormitory, they need to realize these. Only in this way can make everybody live in a harmonious environment.

為了融入集體，學生必須要有集體意識。由于大多數學生是家里的獨生子，所以他們并不懂如何與室友相處。他們總是以自己為中心而忽略了他人的感受。但當他們住在一個宿舍里面，他們就必須要顧及到他人的感受。只有這樣才能讓每個人都生活在一個和諧的環境。

To fit in a group, students also need to be honest. As many students live in a common surrounding, it is easy to have conflict, because different cultures happen among students from different regions. Then it is important to be honest and try to talk about the problem, or the conflict will bigger.

為了融入集體，學生還需要誠實。因為很多學生生活在一個共同的環境，所以很容易會產生沖突，因為文化地域的沖突。所以，處理這些問題的時候，誠實就顯得很重要，如果他們能夠試著談談，情況會有所好轉，不然沖突會更大。

It is a big lesson for students to learn get along with others. The one who handles well are trend to be get successfully easily.

學會與他人相處對學生來說也是一門很重要的課程。處理得好的人會更容易取得成功。