In Chinese classic family, the young mothers and fathers need to go to work everyday and the job of taking care of the children belongs to the grandparents. So when a foreign man goes to the kindergarten to pick up his child, the old people will very surprise and think he is not working. Actually, foreign fathers are willing to focus more attention to babies while Chinese fathers ignore their kids all the time.

在中國傳統家庭中，年輕的父母每天都需要上班，照顧孩子們的責任則落在了爺爺和奶奶肩上。所以，當一個外國男人去幼兒園接他孩子時，老人們會很驚訝，認為他是沒有工作的。實際上，外國父親愿意把更多注意力放在孩子身上，然而中國父親卻不是如此。

The traditional Chinese fathers are thought to make money and support the family. It is women’s duty to take care of the children and family chores. So most Chinese fathers spend less time with their children. When the children are talking to them, they keep their eyes on the smart phones. Some men are not willing to go home early for the reason of companying their boss to have dinner. All of these deeds are hurting their children. The missing part of father’s role in children’s process of growing is not good.

中國傳統的父親被賦予的職責都是賺錢養家，而女性的責任就是照顧孩子和做家務。所以大多數中國父親都不怎么花時間與他們的孩子在一起。當孩子想和他們說說話的時候，他們的注意力卻都放在智能手機上。而有些男人不愿意早早回家的原因是要陪他們的老板共進晚餐。所有這些行為都傷害了自己的孩子，父親這個角色在孩子的成長過程中的缺失是非常不好的。

The men should be aware of the importance of spending more time with children. It is both women and men’s duty to educate the kids.

男人應該意識到多花時間和孩子們在一起的重要性。教育孩子是父母雙方的共同責任。